In my opinion, this is a staple in any wardrobe regardless of where you plan on wearing it. It adds a bold, edgy touch to any outfit and makes you look irresistible.
You can layer it on top of your clothes, as styled down below for the brand For Love and Lemons. No doubt that harnesses are associated with BDSM and dominatrixes, but that does not mean that they are exclusive to those wearing this accessory in the bedroom. You can wear this on top of a plain outfit to automatically add an extra bit of edge. This is the most approachable and easy way to wear a harness without exposing a lot of skin.
In fact, pairing them on top of demure pieces like a turtleneck gives new life to your closet staples. I would save a look like this for a night out at a show or festival where you can show off more of your personality because this look may not go over well with most employers.
For those of us who are more daring, harnesses can always be paired with mesh or close to nothing. Fashion is all about self-expression, and why not look (& feel) badass when you're out with your friends? I love the extra boost of confidence I get from wearing something so empowering. What are your thoughts?